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“Patients with more active disease had more decline in their sexual drive,” Jolly says."It's not like the desire isn't there, but the energy isn't.The thing to keep in mind is that lupus will never be more important than the person who has it.As much as is possible, people with lupus should stay actively engaged with life – that includes social situations and yes, even the pursuit of love. Chronic fatigue, a symptom that develops in about eighty percent of lupus patients, makes it difficult to muster the energy to go out, and is often associated with mild to severe depression – not an ideal state of mind for someone planning a date.I lost my wife my job and my life trying to figure out what was wrong with me.In my marriage I also was trying to hide my symptoms.When any movement is painful, dating doesn’t seem feasible or even desirable.For patients who are sexually active, the experience is no longer enjoyable, especially for those battling arthritic pain in the hip joints.
Nearly half of the women in Jolly's study avoided sex because of lupus-related flares and up to 40% felt that their relationships were negatively affected by their disease.
Trying to work, trying to keep my marriage strong, and hiding all these emotions and pain from everyone.
Then after I lost all, I was put in the hospital with kidney and liver failure.
For those divorced, in their 50's, the men are also divorced but seem to have this image of getting the perfect woman the second time around.
I also am so conditioned to hide any problems as I did for my ex that I don't know how to discuss my disease without sounding like I am looking for attention. I have gone through Hell and back because of family and friends not willing to accept that I was really sick.
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